As I pay for my coffee and begin walking to the office, I ponder the conversation I just overheard. I can’t help but feel conflicted in my emotions. One part of me is amused. The other part is feeling some resentment, a lingering thought leftover from my college days. I can’t help but remember that one sentence, the thing I despised hearing the most, “You’re SUCH a great guy, but we’re just not right for each other.” Ugh, I probably heard that phrase about twenty times before. It used to make me so angry. How could those hypocrites be so cruel?

• Netherland Doms

The truth was, being nice wasn’t the problem, it was growing a pair of balls that was the real issue. You can’t respect someone that you can walk all over. This is the common confusion in the old “nice guys” vs. “jerks” debate. I don’t think women want either a “nice guy” or a “jerk” but something in between. Something with the gentlemanly type demeanor of a nice guy except with the balls of a jerk attached. Lets name him “Ballsy McNice.” So, Johnny, if you’re out there reading this, I feel for you man. I’ve been there, but it’s time to man up. Stop crying into your beer and become a Ballsy McNice. Sure, you’ll still finish last if you want to stay a nice guy, but it’s a hell of a lot more fun to simply lead the whole race.

• Loveawake

Iam standing in a long line waiting for my morning coffee. The place is buzzing with college students coming back from their long weekend. I’m intently listening in on the conversation of two cute girls in front of me. And somewhere out there, another nice guy’s heart has been crushed. Girl1: So how was your weekend? Girl2: Oh it was awesome. We went to the fireworks and partied….had a great time! Girl1: That’s cool. So, how’s Johnny doing? Girl2: Oh, I actually broke up with him last week. Girl1: Oh my god! Really??? Girl2: Yea, he took it kind of hard, but it was just something I had to do, you know? I mean, he was the perfect guy, real nice and everything, but……I don’t know, I’m just not looking for that right now. You know what I mean? Girl1: Yea, I hear ya. I kind of felt the same way when I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He was just soooo nice, it kinda pissed me off. The girls finally approach the checkout counter and I can barely hear the conversation. They are laughing now and I can faintly hear something about how pathetic their ex-boyfriends are.

• Dutch Love Daddy

Cameron has never been in love – at least, nobody’s ever been in love with him. If things don’t change for him, he’s gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she’s gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence. She won’t respect him, ’cause you can’t respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn’t work. so true. women like to be led and its the mans job to do that. its in our dna, its part of evolution. as long as you adapt to today’s social dynamics, ie. don’t be a dick, you don’t live in a cave after all, then you’ll be in a much better spot with the ladies.

• Dutch Ebony

Yes, I agree with your post. Being Alpha doesn’t mean you act like an a-hole towards women…it means you show initiative and you know how to take charge of a situation. totally in agreement with your message. but most guys, deep inside, have what it takes to get girls. and all they have to do is be natural. grow some balls and be yourself! nice guys..you just don’t get it! by acting like a pussy you’ll never get any(where) :) ) Ummm, All I can say is YES Nice Guys never finish first! same goes for gals! NO we don’ t want a man we can walk all over it is like SON, where is your backbone! we love being pampered and loved and all that… (attention) there comes a time to be a bad boy also!!

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